A subbie who cares for themselves values thier body, mind and gift of submission. A D/s relationship is not easily attained. Someone who rushes into things or hands themselves over to any willing Dominant is not demonstrating the value of thier submission. I think it is a good thing to know what you want and to wait for the right Mistress. Do not let the fantasy of D/s overshadow the reality. Subbies who rush into things can end up in unfair and unexpected circumstances. A Dominant and submissive must be a good match to last long term. If you are not seeking a long term D/s relationship then you must still do your research. When you hand yourself over to a Mistress your fantasy is now a reality. Be sure you are in the right hands. Value your place as a submissive. You make my exploration of sensual Domination possible. What is an artist without a canvas?